
Reactions in Relationships - Silver Linings in COVID-19
Last week, on our way to therapy, Emily attempted to make a request of me. A friend of hers has been lonely as of late and she was asking...

Real Talk
Relationships are hard. They are hard because individual people are complex. Then we put two or more people together and the complexity,...

Throwing Large Parties and The Dip
When my house moved into where we currently live we took one look at the main floor and new we had to hold events here. Our sizable...

Community Hygiene: Proactively Addressing Conflict
I have the great privilege to live with many people whom I care about who also care about me. We live in San Francisco and have named our...

The Architects of Resentment
Last year I moved to where I am currently living in SF. While anticipating the move I devised a plan to pack gradually over a week or two...

Slippery words - Soon: Looking at Requests vs Demands
Language can be a slippery thing. I'm not a linguist and it's clear that words can mean different things to different people at different...

Hard Conversations, Therapy and Laughter
Today marks Emily and I's third year of dating. This has easily been my best romantic relationship. There are many reasons why....







