Benjamin LaCaraApr 13, 20204 min readKeeping Ourselves In Good CompanyDo you know how to juggle? It’s good for more than just juggling. Go find three objects of similar shapes and sizes. Start with one...
Benjamin LaCaraMar 23, 20204 min readBeauty and the Circle of InfluenceAn upshot of COVID has been going on daily walks when the weather is sweetest with Emily. It’s made for a nice break for us both and has...
Benjamin LaCaraFeb 3, 20206 min readReal TalkRelationships are hard. They are hard because individual people are complex. Then we put two or more people together and the complexity,...
Benjamin LaCaraDec 30, 20195 min readResolutions and Incremental ChangeA couple years ago I asked several of my friends to give me New Year’s resolutions. This led me to me reading more poetry than I ever had...
Benjamin LaCaraOct 21, 20193 min readThoughts on JournalingThis past week I bit off more than I could chew by trying to talk about friendship. It bested me this time. For now I offer you thoughts...
Benjamin LaCaraOct 14, 20197 min readHard Conversations, Therapy and LaughterToday marks Emily and I's third year of dating. This has easily been my best romantic relationship. There are many reasons why....
Benjamin LaCaraOct 7, 20193 min readEasy come, never goIn elementary school I developed a strategy for doing my homework. It carried me through junior high, high school, college and grad...