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Thresholds for Change
A few months ago a housemate was experiencing stomach pain day after day. They would gain hope when it wasn’t as bad when they woke up...

Benjamin LaCara
Jan 20, 20202 min read
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Throwing Large Parties and The Dip
When my house moved into where we currently live we took one look at the main floor and new we had to hold events here. Our sizable...

Benjamin LaCara
Jan 13, 20204 min read
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Resolutions and Incremental Change
A couple years ago I asked several of my friends to give me New Year’s resolutions. This led me to me reading more poetry than I ever had...

Benjamin LaCara
Dec 30, 20195 min read
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Community Hygiene: Proactively Addressing Conflict
I have the great privilege to live with many people whom I care about who also care about me. We live in San Francisco and have named our...

Benjamin LaCara
Dec 23, 20197 min read
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The Architects of Resentment
Last year I moved to where I am currently living in SF. While anticipating the move I devised a plan to pack gradually over a week or two...

Benjamin LaCara
Dec 16, 20195 min read
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